What Could be Hurting Your Sleep
May is Better Sleep Month: sleep is essential for everyone, especially those with chronic illnesses. But how does your time in bed measure up? Let’s look at several factors affecting your sleep potential.
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Megan Quinn
5/7/20263 min read
Not getting enough sleep can be a very frustrating experience, but even more frustrating is figuring out why. There is a long list of things that could affect your sleep, from your sleep hygiene and daily habits, to medications, diet, exercise, and medical conditions. Here are some of the most common things that might be hurting your sleep.
Stress
First up is stress. The reason why doctors think stress causes so many of your ailments, is because it can! Stress doesn’t just affect your mental and emotional health, but your physical health as well. It is vital that you get a handle on your stress levels, or just about every area of your life is going to suffer, including your sleep.
Try to find ways to relieve your stress if you have been suffering from sleep deprivation. This might mean cutting hours at work, practicing more self-care, reducing time with toxic people in your life, or just finding simple stress relievers like exercise or taking a day off every week.
Your Sleeping Environment
People now are understanding more about sleep quality and sleep hygiene, which includes where you sleep and your bedroom environment. If your bedroom is not set up to get good sleep, such as being too hot or too cold, extremely bright, loud noises permeating the space, or with a lot of distractions (including clutter or tasks left undone), you aren’t going to get good sleep. Take some time to improve your sleeping environment to be calming and peaceful, reducing the number of sleeping hindrances.
Lack of Bedtime Rituals
Poor bedtime rituals and sleep habits can make it difficult to fall asleep. The way you get ready for sleep each night is just as important as the quality of your mattress and having a relaxing sleep environment. If you watch TV on the couch every night and fall asleep there, you are going to wake up with back and neck pain, and have trouble falling back asleep.
Start preparing for bed an hour or so before your actual bedtime by winding down, relaxing with tea, warm milk, or a bath, and doing quiet, relaxing activities like gentle stretching, journaling, meditation, or reading. Make sure you do this consistently every night to get your mind and body ready for bed.
Distractions and Electronics
Do you keep your TV on at night or use your phone until you finally fall asleep? If so, this might be contributing to your sleep deprivation. These distractions can seem like they are helping you fall asleep, but they cause you to pay attention to something that usually won’t help you unwind. And the blue screen reduction in bedtime mode doesn’t completely eliminate blue light, which kills your natural melatonin production.
If you are checking your phone when you wake up to roll over to your other side, your brain is becoming more alert from whatever notifications or emails you have. This is really screwing up your sleep. Keep the phone away from the bed where you can’t reach it (or even in another room), turn off the lights, and turn off your television and laptop.
Cats and dogs are common bed companions. There are risks and benefits from sleeping with your pets, so you’ll have to weigh whether they are keeping you awake and exposing you to more germs, or making you feel more secure and reducing stress, anxiety, and feelings of loneliness.
Medical Conditions
Certain medical conditions might also be contributing to your lack of sleep, like Parkinson’s, diabetes, arthritis, fibromyalgia, and heart disease. If you suffer from any medical conditions that cause discomfort or stress at night, talk to your doctor about treating them.
More on this in my next blog post, because, of course! It needs special attention paid to it.
Your Diet
Finally, your diet should also be considered. There are some foods that can actually help to encourage sleep, such as turkey and healthy carbs, while a diet of sugar, grease, caffeine, and alcohol before bed is going to inhibit your sleep. You will have trouble falling asleep and staying asleep, which could keep you from ever reaching that deep, REM sleep everyone needs each night.
Try to work on improving your sleep habits, set your room up to be prepared for bed, and stop leaving your phone on your bed or nightstand. These are all severely hurting your quality of sleep.
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Resources
The Better Sleep Council
CDC's "About Sleep”
Sleep Foundation’s “Sleeping with Pets”
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